If you are a couple, this will help you save your marriage, if you a couple in the making, this will also help because If you recognize ahead of time, though, what those relationship problems might be, you'll have a much better chance of getting past them.
According to Mitch Temple, Even though every relationship has its ups and downs, successful couples have learned how to manage the bumps and keep their love life going. They hang in there, tackle problems, and learn how to work through the complex issues of everyday life.
Bellow are 7 tips that can save your relationship with your wife/husband, with your lover, with your parent etc...any for of relation ship.
1. Communication
All relationship problems and disorder arise from poor communication, according to Elaine Fantle "You can't communicate while you're checking your BlackBerry, watching TV, or flipping through the sports section," Although this does not means you discard all of those, just learn to ballance them. As soon as the relationship is reducing, the affection also reduces, that's why you need to keep up with your communication.
Problem-solving strategies
* Make an actual appointment with each other, Shimberg says. If you live together, put the cell phones on vibrate, put the kids to bed, and let voicemail pick up your calls.
*.If you can't "communicate" without raising your voices, go to a public spot like the library, park, or restaurant where you'd be embarrassed if anyone saw you screaming.
*.Set up some rules. Try not to interrupt until your partner is through speaking, or ban phrases such as "You always ..." or "You never ...."
*.Use body language to show you're listening. Don’t doodle, look at your watch, or pick at your nails. Nod so the other person knows you're getting the message, and rephrase if you need to. For instance, say, "What I hear you saying is that you feel as though youhave more chores at home, even though we're both working." If you're right, the other can confirm. If what the other person really meant was, "Hey, you're a slob and you create more work for me by having to pick up after you," he or she can say so, but in a nicer way.
One Tip for a day
Please your comments will help...
According to Mitch Temple, Even though every relationship has its ups and downs, successful couples have learned how to manage the bumps and keep their love life going. They hang in there, tackle problems, and learn how to work through the complex issues of everyday life.
Bellow are 7 tips that can save your relationship with your wife/husband, with your lover, with your parent etc...any for of relation ship.
1. Communication
All relationship problems and disorder arise from poor communication, according to Elaine Fantle "You can't communicate while you're checking your BlackBerry, watching TV, or flipping through the sports section," Although this does not means you discard all of those, just learn to ballance them. As soon as the relationship is reducing, the affection also reduces, that's why you need to keep up with your communication.
Problem-solving strategies
* Make an actual appointment with each other, Shimberg says. If you live together, put the cell phones on vibrate, put the kids to bed, and let voicemail pick up your calls.
*.If you can't "communicate" without raising your voices, go to a public spot like the library, park, or restaurant where you'd be embarrassed if anyone saw you screaming.
*.Set up some rules. Try not to interrupt until your partner is through speaking, or ban phrases such as "You always ..." or "You never ...."
*.Use body language to show you're listening. Don’t doodle, look at your watch, or pick at your nails. Nod so the other person knows you're getting the message, and rephrase if you need to. For instance, say, "What I hear you saying is that you feel as though youhave more chores at home, even though we're both working." If you're right, the other can confirm. If what the other person really meant was, "Hey, you're a slob and you create more work for me by having to pick up after you," he or she can say so, but in a nicer way.
One Tip for a day
Please your comments will help...
this make sense, keep it up
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